tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post8204984970446824664..comments2023-10-01T06:32:11.982-07:00Comments on PEACE in PUZZLES: Will this ever end?Integrity Singerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09196095126605205738noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post-71358120908436833812011-07-23T08:10:25.444-07:002011-07-23T08:10:25.444-07:00It's comforting that others are finally seeing...It's comforting that others are finally seeing what you see, calling her bluff and getting on board with RTC. This, however, is little consolation to you if the services she needs, requires, MUST HAVE, do not exist in your state. Even in the states that do, it is harder than heck to get in and a constant struggle to keep them in. I prayed for an RTC opening for my son, I prayed we could convince the powers that be that he needed to be there. At some point I realized that I was praying for the wrong thing. I don't believe the inferior RTC in our state can actually help him, just expose him to even worse behaviors so I gave up on that and am now just focusing on getting him adult services when he turns 18, medicating him, and playing the waiting game to 18. Now, I must win the "Worst Mother in the Land" award for that. I am not talking hopeless here, I am talking acceptance for things I have no control over and cannot change. Now, I can control him living here after age 18 and continuously subjecting our younger kids to his mean, surly, raging behaviors and I will.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14612523674452864077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post-26626005318839213572011-07-21T19:27:46.716-07:002011-07-21T19:27:46.716-07:00Love you....BUNCHES!!!Love you....BUNCHES!!!cinchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06015760387553659192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post-62447208562700006392011-07-20T19:15:11.854-07:002011-07-20T19:15:11.854-07:00Bless you.Bless you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06231818670835653986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post-25061951496780247882011-07-20T15:39:27.920-07:002011-07-20T15:39:27.920-07:00You definitely make us feel like we're not alo...You definitely make us feel like we're not alone...though I'm sure that's small comfort. Big hugs to you, and tears, and anger, too, for Sissy and for you all. I am praying that your state changes pronto. And I'm praying that our daughter doesn't come home from RTC in a week. Do I feel like an awful mom? Yep. But that's reality here in what my daugher wants to believe is la-la land.<br /><br />Much love to you!!!Debora Hoffmannhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09947148491137183181noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post-45160122553761589592011-07-20T14:35:52.415-07:002011-07-20T14:35:52.415-07:00I cannot begin to imagine all that you go through,...I cannot begin to imagine all that you go through, but your struggles will help others going through the same - thank you.LJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17959426811645111747noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post-61103477654067611662011-07-20T14:35:06.118-07:002011-07-20T14:35:06.118-07:00I cannot begin to imagine the struggles you go thr...I cannot begin to imagine the struggles you go through, but I can tell you that your sharing of them will help someone else feel that they are not alone.LJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17959426811645111747noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post-697174964526186232011-07-20T13:46:48.823-07:002011-07-20T13:46:48.823-07:00There are many days when I think that very same th...There are many days when I think that very same thought, Will this ever end?? I sure hope so because there has got to be something better then crazy land.Cyndihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03707402484656540757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post-19029505047741622562011-07-20T13:44:57.153-07:002011-07-20T13:44:57.153-07:00i am so sorry....I wish there was a magic wand to ...i am so sorry....I wish there was a magic wand to help sissy heal and want to heal. I wish there was a way to help you and the dad and not make you feel terrible for trying your hardest to parent a mentally ill child. all I can do is offer a hug. your not alone....the cavclanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17861757679026563379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post-62831324915342399442011-07-20T13:41:28.047-07:002011-07-20T13:41:28.047-07:00I'm not fabulous with words when people are hu...I'm not fabulous with words when people are hurting from and struggling through extremely tough times, but I want you to know that I love you and I pray for you often.Tara - SanitySrchrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11389093745334636867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post-79674654011140681162011-07-20T12:56:43.409-07:002011-07-20T12:56:43.409-07:00Oh how my heart aches for you and your family. I t...Oh how my heart aches for you and your family. I think of you and pray for you a lot during the day and I will continue. <br /><br />Huge hugs!Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12512938254927024318noreply@blogger.com