tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post203706218171399450..comments2023-10-01T06:32:11.982-07:00Comments on PEACE in PUZZLES: fearIntegrity Singerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09196095126605205738noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post-86906530039401318642010-12-17T08:09:12.226-08:002010-12-17T08:09:12.226-08:00oh the lying, I could so be done withthe lying. I ...oh the lying, I could so be done withthe lying. I think it is great that someone lese has finally seen all that she can do and be when she is raging. Hope the weekend is as calm as the weekend before Christmas can be.stellarparenting.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04975942737904876508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post-80990687847184167382010-12-16T16:06:40.308-08:002010-12-16T16:06:40.308-08:00I swear most of the times dealing with my RAD daug...I swear most of the times dealing with my RAD daughter I must be crazy and she is not really saying or doing the things she is! I told my husband I mist be crazy because all most people see is this adorable, sweet, funny, charming bright 5 year old and I mostly see the crazy! <br /><br />I am a lurker but just reading your blog helps me to not feel so alone and that other are dealing with this and it can be done!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post-58229261442289283542010-12-14T19:43:31.352-08:002010-12-14T19:43:31.352-08:00I'm sorry for you. I'm sorry for your enti...I'm sorry for you. I'm sorry for your entire family. It sounds like you continue to grieve, and grieve, and grieve, while Sissy rages, and rages, and rages. Have you heard back from the MA hospital?<br /><br />Offering you positive energy and warm thoughts.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post-11327872355926139892010-12-14T15:42:16.672-08:002010-12-14T15:42:16.672-08:00I think fear is way more debilitating than anger, ...I think fear is way more debilitating than anger, for us and them. Anger fuels our energy but fear overwhelms and destroys any peace of mind we may have. The only thing I can say is one minute at a time. I know what it's like to hate every second of your life. I have no answers, just support.Marty Waldenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07457166508208134485noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post-1323166087538142402010-12-14T09:48:18.510-08:002010-12-14T09:48:18.510-08:00I know what a relief it is to finally have someone...I know what a relief it is to finally have someone else see and hear what we see and hear every day. Its like now maybe you will gain a few gray hairs because of this kid too, oh yeah that is a huge win for you! Now document the heck out of it and then maybe some of these helpful sorts out there can REALLY help you, I hope. If they ever figure the whole thing out be sure to fill me in so I can get off this roller coaster too.Cyndihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03707402484656540757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-347324365882583578.post-49806111526630431582010-12-14T07:58:06.350-08:002010-12-14T07:58:06.350-08:00Hugs to you! I completely understand that exhaust...Hugs to you! I completely understand that exhaustion, like feeling you'll never get off the stress treadmill. Like you're taking 10 steps backwards for every 2 forward. <br /><br />I'm glad you had the therapist there to witness. I wish the professionals could parent these kids for a few weeks, and then tell us how well the sticker charts and "you should try"s work. Any everyone who says, "Oh every kid does that" should be automatically signed up to do a week of respite care. And they still won't get it because she'll be sweet as pie for them since they're not mom, but at least you'd get a lot of breaks!Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04452561735236501206noreply@blogger.com